When Lovers Rock And How To Add Stability LOVE THY SELF If you can wake up in the morning and look into the mirror, and the first thing you do is smile then you my friend are on the start of a road to loving yourself or maybe your halfway there already. It is a crucial and essential element to starting or being involved in any relationship is to love yourself, as” if you cannot love yourself how the hell do you expect anyone else to be able to...huh? How the hell can you expect someone to love you when you have not put anything on show to love!!!”. Every human being has been placed and blessed with at least three positive and attractive components within them whether it is a smart brain to a positive mind and way of thinking to a sexy curvaceous body or a hot hair do. There is something very attractive within each individual. I used to think of myself as an unattractive girl, growing up and to this day some people mainly family members will say I’m quite dorky, very attractive but very shy and unconfident. I didn’t love myself. Most times it could be agreed that I hated myself. I was young aged 19 to 20 and I saw nothing to really love about myself. I had a partner who loved me for my mind and personality and thought I was to die for with my looks, but he did notice that I wasn’t as confident as I should have been. It became quite hard for him to gain full access to the potential sexiness within me but he knew it was there so it gave him the urge to encourage me to love myself he would compliment me every so forth and kiss me and hug me be real clingy with him as he I his eyes thought I was has hot as Halle Berry. The question is if this young man saw such beauty in me then why couldn’t I see it? Simple, I needed a clean out a wash up and a fix up, now I am not talking about beauty wise I’m talking about cleaning out any form of hurt inside of your system, any form of Negative abuse, feeling an outcast and any sense of not belonging and fill it up with positivity, thinking I do belong rather than do I belong or don’t I belong. A lot of the times I have found that it’s what haunts you are what forms you. In such situations, I recommend sitting alone for an evening with one's memories, a pen and a blank sheet of paper in front of a candle, a big ashtray and matches. Write down on the paper all that haunts you, read it only once, and burn it with a pure heart. Picture in your imagination that, by burying the ashes of the reminiscences oppressing your soul, you are reborn, cleansed from all causes that led you to your current #life situation. Try it, and you will feel an inner relief. Your visualized victory over yourself will soon be fruitful in the victory over your ailment. The next time you wake up look in the mirror and repeat my #life words of wisdom. AFFIRMATIONS I Am Cool Calm Collected And Totally in Control and/or I Am Beautiful Strong Confident Independent and Very Attractive Repeat them in the morning, at least three times, before leaving for work in the front of your favourite mirror, at your workplace, or at times when you need them