Help with new friends needed Hey guys ive recent..

Traduire 11 années depuis

Help with new friends needed Hey guys ive recently been having problems with my new friends, they are a girl group and the only problem is most of them are girly girls and im a gamer girl, i dont talk to them much becuase i never know what to say to them, so majoraty of the time i hang out with my 2 best mates, Max & adam (yes their boys dont tease. i get on better with boys than girls surprisingly) Max & Adam are my best mates becuase we love games, but with the girls they love makeup and stuff, so im requesting help becuase i honestly dont know what the hellto talk about, plus i really dont wanna look like an idiot just standing there with them, so yeah, HELP NEEDED GUYS!

Aimer

Commentaire

Partagez

Just be yourself. I know that I'm not the girly type. More of the sporty nerd. When I talk about my fav sports teams and stuff, my friends listen most of the time. And then they talk about what they like and I listen as well. We all just talk about what we like and it pays off. My friends appreciate the conversation I being to the table about what I like despite its differences. Talk about what you like sometimes and maybe you can give them a glimpse into something they might live to do. And if they don't appreciate what you like to do and talk about, well then they aren't real friends and you shouldn't waste your time trying to accommodate them. Hope it helped ð¸

· 0 · 1398618662

What about talking about music/bands you like. Everyone might not like the same bands, but I'm sure the all enjoy music.. If makeup becomes the main discussion, let them know you really don't wear makeup and so you have no input on it.. They might be willing o change the topic to include you.. Of course if you bring up games, they may have no input, but maybe invite 1 of them over to play your favorite games sometime so they can check it out.. Maybe they will like it.. Other topics: books, writing, dreams, funny moments or stories that have happened to you, or things you saw.. Don't know if this helps, but hope it can a little at least.

· 0 · 1398618935

@alienize96 @999nessa thanks for the suggestions! i'll try them and see if i get anywhere.

· 0 · 1398620395

@PuffyFluff very welcome! Good luck ð

· 0 · 1398624046

Just be yourself and if they don't accept you then they're not worth your time.

· 0 · 1398638021

Hey! Don't be afraid , you've got us opussians for back up !! Don't worry talk one of us . Surely one of us can help. I was once a loner. Well actually I had no friends at all. Then I talked to some one. That helped. I know what it feels like . I consider myself as a gamer too! I hang out with my gamey cousins and play call of duty and soical media all the time. My friends are always talking about who they want to get married to and one direction and girly stuff. While I just have to go with the flow. One friend if mine says she's a tomboy (not) the reason I think that is because she cried because I didn't let her touch my hair .

· 0 · 1398638164

*that really dumped it.

· 0 · 1398638211

Never try to be someone you're not

· 0 · 1398638624

I like games too. Just go with the flow and if they still not happy then fine, they're not worth your time.

· 0 · 1398638654

I agree with @yowwa . Be you.

· 0 · 1398645379

Traduire 11 années depuis

Vanessa

Brian Beisigl

Aqarisc the black pegasus

Vanessa

Chloe Gallagher

The Puppy

The Puppy

Ella

Cataract / Stevo Owens

The Orchid