I Need Some Advice I know this will sound really..

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I Need Some Advice I know this will sound really petty, and insignificant to some of you, but I'm at a dead end with this, and I don't know what to do, so if someone could spare a few minutes to help me out I'll be really grateful So basically, on April 11th 2011, I went on holiday to Egypt and I met this guy. He's called Guy (which is hilarious, right?) but anyway, I fell in love with him that day, and he did too. But he's the kind of person who doesn't love a girl for the right reasons. He does it for sex. And I don't want that. I want to be in a regular relationship, full of love and caring for each other (you know what I mean). Well anyway we've talked on and off for the past year, but one thing that's stayed constant is my unconditional love for him. I think about him before I sleep, every minute of every day. But my parents don't like him, so I can't talk to anyone about him. Over Christmas, we were in a relationship for a month or so. It was perfect, I was happy, we were in love, and we did everything I wanted us to do. But then he decided it was his turn to get what he wanted, so I left him. But we still talk every now and again, but tonight, I realised how much I miss him, and how much I still love him. Do I get back in a relationship with him, but be subjected to what he wants? Or do I stay as I am, talking occasionally? Or do I just ignore him totally and erase him from my #life? Each one has it's pros and cons, but I can't decide what to do :/ So if anyone can help, even in the slightest I'd really appreciate it By the way, I can't stress enough how much I love him...

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I know if you love someone it's hard just to forget them, so even if you did cut him out of your life you would still find yourself regretting it, you should tell him that you love him but make sure that he knows you want respect and it's not all about sex. If he's not willing to accept that then he's not worth your time or effort, he could lie tho and say he will change but I guess only you will know if he is being truthful or not. Not sure if this helps or not but thought I would try to help. I wish you luck and I will end this corny as my normal stuff and say follow your heart.

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@Stablish no thank you and you're right, he did say he'd changed, and he did for a few weeks, and things were perfect. But he changed back :/ I know as well that if I tell him I love him he'll say something like 'if you love me, then we can be together again, but it needs to satisfy both of us' and I'll be in such an awkward position

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@Stablish but thank you so much for the advice

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No worries I try to help when I can. Take care of yourself don't let any man treat you any less than you deserve.

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@kfryer

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My name's Guy aswekk

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*well

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If sex is all he wants from you then he doesn't deserve you. As lots of people say, there's plenty more fish in the sea

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@Stablish so you think I should just forget him slowly?

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@guyroberts453 haha good for

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@guyroberts453 *good for you

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You know what they say a leopard never changes his stripes, i am sorry to say but it sounds like he would just upset you again. Just start filling your time doing things you love and i am sure you will get love in return.

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@Stablish thank you very much

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@guyroberts453 thank you oh and by the way, Guy is a lovely name

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@Stablish @guyroberts453 and if either of you need any advice, you know where I am apparently I'm pretty good, but evidently not with my own situations â¤

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This has probably been resolved already but I'll just say that he seems like a person who will "change" for a little while just to see if there's any chance he can get what he wants and If he sees the slightest possibility of it he will be back to his normal self. Love is a cruel thing and sometimes it will kill you to let the people you love go but in the long run its worth it. I talk from experience when I say that

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@JacobColeee thank you very much you're right I suppose, it's just going to be hard to let go. Can I just say as well how grateful I am that all males have helped with this. I was kind of worried I'd get a girl who was totally like minded to me, so I'm happy I've got a different perspective

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@kfryer you are very welcome. I hope all works out well for you

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@JacobColeee thank you same applies for you - feel free to ask me anything any time I put my kik name on here a few days ago, so feel free to talk to me on there

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Will do thank you very much(:

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@Stablish it's okay you too - if you've got kik add me

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@kfryer Just downloaded kik now

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I haven't will get it tho

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@kfryer

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I must say: I'm proud of the boys here! ð love is only true when both people share it, otherwise it's nothing but heartache. It will be hard but you'll pull through it by remembering that you're strong and kind and deserve someone who truly love you more than you imagined possible. You should never settle for anything less than what you know you deserve. Good luck sweetie ð

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I think you just need to talk to him and tell him that you don't want to be in that kind of a relationship and if he really loves you then he will respect you and if not well then you probably need to move on a find a guy who wants the same things as you

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Love is such a wonderful experience and don't waste it on anyonewho does not return it. It sure is a twoway traffic !

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I guess the real question is, "What is love?" We have all experienced the highs you get when you fall for someone. We understand the butterflies you get whenever you think of them. We know how they possess your every waking thought and your nighttime dreams. This fades. Love is commitment, trust, honesty. It is a matter of the will more than the heart. It is the stuff that compels you too keep loving them when the ravages of time have wreaked their worse on both of you. Do you love him in that way?

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Do you trust him never too play with your emotions? Do you trust him never to force you too do something you are unwilling too do?

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Trust is an integral part of love. You cannot separate the two.

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@JollyRoger thank you, that's such good advice! @elmoly123 @salettesiao thank you @dsalim your advice is always amazing so thanks

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Anytime ð

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