Four Months In / You Four Months In... I just typed the heading & already tears well about the bottom of my lower lids. Now they spill. Keep trying my best to stay upbeat & positive. It's so hard sometimes trying to do it. Trying to keep it up, almost incessantly. Its so draining. I think I've read four or more self help books as well as used a variety of other techniques I would have scoffed at before. Needless to say after what happened I would have given anything a shot. Still miss You so much. I'm happy that I get days going by without crying. That is to be thankful for; but do You know that I think about You, everyday. Every Single Day. I'm trying to let go & not be stuck, but it's tough. I mean I'm thrilled to have loved just once in my #life. And to be able to say this next part pains Me. I've learned that nothing others do is because of Me (The Four Agreements) so I do my best to accept that into my beliefs but man, You actually broke my heart. Sometimes I wonder why it still works at all. But I've also since learned that we are stronger in the places that We are broken. So thanks for that. I might seem angry but I'm not. I would just love You to hold me once that special way You used to. Our way. The way we feel asleep a thousand times. I'd love just to hold Your hands for just a couple of minutes & let You feel the quiet love I have for You flow from Me to You. I'd love just to look at You again & not feel so hurt by You. My eyes are stinging now; I just want to lie down & feel quiet & peaceful if only for a lil while. That would be so so nice. Thinking of You Bub. Always. I'm looking forward to meeting You again.