FAQ Maybe you could give others advice?: Some people have e-mailed me a question and I have the question for the week: I'm not a pretty girl or popular. But when a boy asked me out, I was overjoyed! He always would call me, text me, and hang with me at lunchtimes. At first it was sweet and i was really glad i was loved! A couple of weeks had gone by after that, and i decided to consider dumping him- I felt like a user because i knew i didn't love him...! Not only that- i loved him like a brother not a boyfriend. So eventually I dumped and i explained to him that it was my fault not his. A week after the break-up, my best mate, told me he had a new girlfriend and i couldn't breathe..... I felt so used, and i knew i only felt like this because I knew that i wasn't pretty or popular- how could a guy even think about dating me?! Please can you help me, i need to understand me feelings..... sandyjanye367