From A Boy To A Man Women complain about guys not being men...well being a man is being boy +making mistakes+ a real women the reason I say this is because all men Start boys and the only way they become an man is by giving up all there boyish ways by making mistake, cause if you never make a mistake you can never learn from them, so if you believe every man should now it all by a certain age then your wrong age is nothing but a number, you my be a 30 year old who has sat in a box all his #life and know fuck all. The dudes with the most baggage mean he been a lot of places lol. However this isn't an excuse for guys to go out and make mistakes purposely but for them to know when they have truthfully fucked up it ain't all over, there still a chance if the baggage that you picked up was worth all the dramas and you've grown. For example a man who cheats on his girl once has made a mistake, it's easy for any guy/girl to say ill never do that to my man/women simply because they weren't put in the position, fair enough some people have stronger willpower but anything could force someone to slip up just make sure you pick yourself up and except that you fell and do everything you can to try make it right if you love them enough and if not pack your bags with what you've learnt and move on. And the reason I say you need a real women is so you have reason for them to be real man...I mean if your with them for sex, money, fame, power, security e.t.c basically anything other then just being there for who they are, then you ain't gonna get the best out of him, if you try change him for you, then you won't get the best out of him, you have to allow the brother to change himself for you cause when they make that decision that's the one you want. So before you ask for a man become a women. It's hard to be a perfect man but you need to be your boyish spirt but make mistakes and find a girl that's willing to help you grow and learn from them but also, give give you a reason to want to do the right things for them by yourself. So you can fully go from a boy to a man.