Self-harm Someone please explain to me why others think that people self for attention because they cut over the smallest of things, see the thing is people handle things diffrently, the amount they can take will be diffrent to how much other people can take. Some people may not be as strong as others si therefor little things can upset them, fir example if a couple broke up, it doesn't matter how long they have been together its still going to rip them apart inside, and people think self harming over this is perfetic, but if you became so fond of someone and you loved them so much that you cant describe how it feels and ever thinking about loosing them hurts, then maybe these you will see how perfetic it is then. There are many people out there who go throught this every day and when people make renarks then its going to make tbings a whole lot worse. Nobody knows whats gojng through a persons mind or whats gohng on at home. You will never ynderstand how a person feels as it will never be the same as what someone else is going throught