Dear Astrid - Friendship Dear Astrid I don't know what it is. Just that it's nice. Most people say: 'no, we're JUST friends' but that should be one of the most important things in the world. I don't really know much about missing. In a friendship you must give and I'm too selfish for that. I can do better myself. I like it when I'm alone, think alone, work alone, write alone... But I enjoy when there's persons around me. Just because they're there and I am after all a pack-animal.