Excuses I find it crazy that we use the phrase "this is how I am, take it or leave it" as an excuse to do drugs and be hoes, "I can't change who I am" last time I checked you're the one who agreed to smoke or sleep around, it's was your brain and your thoughts therefore you could have picked the better option, you could have "changed" yourself in a good way but you're just lazy and know you will fail so you use it as an excuse to fuck with your #life.