Memories A memory can be a tool to stir us to action, inspire change or shed new light on a situation, even if it is a bad one. Memories can teach us lessons even when their days are long past. In this way, our own history can reach out to us positively. But beware the memory that you allow to linger as if its time is now. Keeping your eyes turned forever to the dark past might cause you to miss the bright light of day. Always be eager to make new, positive memories to place next to the negative ones so that you can better appreciate your journey.