Do not complain !! Do not judge !!Do not expect..

Do not live !!

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Oh no !!! Live to the full without complaining , judging and expecting . Life becomes so easy without these habits !!

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If you don't complain you settle for less than you deserve

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If you do not judge, you settle for less in others

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If you have no expectation then you do not strive to be the best

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If you have none of the above you become a robot.. Which never feels disappointed

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There is a difference between complaining and claiming ! You claim your rights absolutely but u do not put up a miserable face . I mean complaining in that sense and asking for pity . Got it ?

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Who are u to judge others ? U do not have all the criteria for judging !!

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If I get something less than I expect I complain until I get better... If its from someone who should do better I will judge them and seek better.. Got it?

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When u do not expect you do not feel disappointed . You try your best but you do not expecttoo much . Then u feel happier ! No grudge , no ill feelings !!

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U do not judge others in the same way that u do not want others to judge u ! Everyone in earth must have his own experiences , i agree , but if we can alleviate our difficulties why not opt for certain habits ?

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No complaining .,ur partner will adore u !

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No judging , he or she will appreciate u more

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No expecting ! He will love u

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If you expect nothing how can you claim anything? Of rather be occasionally disappointed than unfulfilled. If I provide someone a service or take an action that affects others I expect to be judged and sure as fate will judge others.

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No expecting ! He will love u

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No loving, you will never be broken hearted

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How can you appreciate without expecting

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We can go on and on !! At least try to be tolerant !!! And save a lot of troubles .

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Do u like to b broken hearted ?? U like misery !!! Lol

· 0 · 1358163521

Expect unconditionally?. Isn't that a form fascism?.

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Are you judging me?

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I do not like being broken hearted, but being open to love is worth the risk and is required to live life to the full.. As are expecting, complaining and judging.. Otherwise we become subservient automatons

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Not at all !! Just a general comment !!!

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If we are broken hearted we suffer !!

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All my observations are geared towards a happy life ! That is all ! So if i try not to complain , not to judge and not to expect , i find myself lighter !!! And do not get entangled into all that these habits may entail !!!!

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Suffering , bad judgement , criticism, disappointments etc

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Try these just for one day !! See how u feel !!

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So to recap, you advise not falling in love in case your heart gets broke; don't expect anything to avoid disappointment; don't complain (accepting everything) so you don't criticise; don't judge anyone (letting them do as they wish) because we aren't qualified to take control... The secret to a happy life ð

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It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved ! The love issue is not included .

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As for the rest , yes ! They contribute towards a happy life

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If you're happy to be led, controlled and leave your every need in the hands of others ð I can see how that would work ð

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Our ego is so strong that it reduces our happiness .

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Oh no dear! I have always had leading jobs in my life and i manage very well .

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How?

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The 'how?' was questioning the ego statement as the job comment wasn't up yet.. However, how can one lead without composing about underperformance? Or expecting the best from staff and providers? Judge the standard of employees?

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composing' should be 'complaining'..

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The ego never allows us to be happy . Happiness is a pure form of being but the ego is too materialistic and intervenes to block our well being

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There are subtle ways to achieve positive results . Praising , encouraging , enlightening ,cooperating ,from a dynamic and democratic leader will undoubtedly bring unexpected results !!!

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The ego separates oneself from every other individual, it is not an impediment to happiness, nor is it materialistic. Again.. If you do not have expectations, how do you quantify results? Without goals and aims, what objectives are you encouraging others to attain?

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Without judging how do you recognise a positive result?

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In a workplace that uses only praise.. It's the lack of praise that becomes criticism.

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We have different interpretations for ego . For me it separates me from my inner self . Am on another level of discussion . My interpretation is the mind ego that interferes with my inner joy . All ur points are logical and specific .

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But we are not contextualising , this is why we cannot agree .

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Ego is oneself and all that entails, if you mean something else, use another word or concept (no need to go to another level). If the accuracy or relevance of an opinion/advice/idea can not be contextualised, what is its point?

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I disagree because I don't believe having no expectations or judgement and never complaining makes for a happier person.

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You are free to disagree ! With age and experience you will agree that complaining cannot make one a better and happier person .

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We all judge people whether subconsciously or not. And as for expecting; this morning I woke up expecting I would live through the day. Expecting that I would see my family. Expecting I would feel happiness and sadness. Is it wrong to expect that?

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I never said it is wrong to expect.if you dont expect then you wont be disappointed .this attitude can bring u nearer to happiness .

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Without expectation you have the happiness of a fool. You are making a judgement upon my age and experience, but here's a simple example of how you are wrong: you go to a hotel, your room is dirty and cold. You complain. You get get a warm, clean room. You are happier and better.

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