"it" We wonder at many times in our lives why things happen. Sometimes why the grass is green or why the ocean is so vast. Or the famous question: how is a raven like a writing desk. But mostly, why "it" happens. Everyone has that special "it." And we ask ourselves: Why did "it" have to happen? Why didn't "it" happen? Why did "it" hurt me so bad? (And so on and so forth with the questions we ask.) Everybody's "it" is different. Special. Unique.Personal.