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I Just Need Someones Advice Please? Most people who are going to see this probably won't even read but I hope someone does because I don't normally ask for something I think it's embarrassing a lot of the time but I've realised it's time that I need to ask for some advice of someone on something I need help with...I found out that my mum is having an affair and no one else knows apart from me, I don't know what I'm supposed to do:/ I just really need someone's help, well their advice?

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I feel for you, it's a hard situation to be in. Are you 100% sure that she's having an affair?

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I was in the same situation, and it's difficult I bottled it up inside and to be honest that killed me. I still find it difficult to forgive my mum for what she has done to my dad and the family, but you just gotta get on with it. If I were you though I'd tell your dad it's best he find out. I hope this helps x

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No, don't tell your dad yet. Speak with your mum first, confront her about it.

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Yea you must make sure first x

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Thank you both and I am definitely sure I've tried not to believe it but it's just carried on and got worse, I have tried to talk to her about but I don't know what I should say or how to say it if that makes sense? I know it sounds pretty stupid I just don't really know how to deal with it x

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Thank you both and I am definitely sure I've tried not to believe it but it's just carried on and got worse, I have tried to talk to her about but I don't know what I should say or how to say it if that makes sense? I know it sounds pretty stupid I just don't really know how to deal with it x

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Thank you both and I am definitely sure I've tried not to believe it but it's just carried on and got worse, I have tried to talk to her about but I don't know what I should say or how to say it if that makes sense? I know it sounds pretty stupid I just don't really know how to deal with it x

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Thank you both and I am definitely sure I've tried not to believe it but it's just carried on and got worse, I have tried to talk to her about but I don't know what I should say or how to say it if that makes sense? I know it sounds pretty stupid I just don't really know how to deal with it x

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Thank you both and I am definitely sure I've tried not to believe it but it's just carried on and got worse, I have tried to talk to her about but I don't know what I should say or how to say it if that makes sense? I know it sounds pretty stupid I just don't really know how to deal with it x

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Thank you both and I am definitely sure I've tried not to believe it but it's just carried on and got worse, I have tried to talk to her about but I don't know what I should say or how to say it if that makes sense? I know it sounds pretty stupid I just don't really know how to deal with it x

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Thank you both very much I am definitely sure she is though I mean I tried to think that it's not real or happening but I just can't seem to because it's always on my mind when she goes out and stuff:/ I have tried to talk to her about it as well but then when I'm about to say it I just don't know what to say or how to say it I know it sounds really stupid but I jut don't know how to deal with itxx

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Thank you both very much I am definitely sure she is though I mean I tried to think that it's not real or happening but I just can't seem to because it's always on my mind when she goes out and stuff:/ I have tried to talk to her about it as well but then when I'm about to say it I just don't know what to say or how to say it I know it sounds really stupid but I jut don't know how to deal with itxx@Cinders

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Oh my gosh what is my iPod doing I am soooooo sorry!xx

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If that was me, I would confront my mum and explain how u feel. It's hard but my mum was in a troubled relationship and when I explained to her that her relationship with that person was really affecting our relationship she took a step back and did the right thing. It's about you understanding why your mum is doing what she is doing but more importantly it is about her being brave and facing the music and not destroying your relationship. U need to take the burden and place it back onto her because it is not fair her making u feel like this. Xx

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I just feel really bad if I say something because what if she is really annoyed at me or what if she's mad because I haven't said something sooner...what if she won't want to talk to me?x

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She is your mother she should talk to you regardless, she shouldn't and probably won't get annoyed if anything she'll be shocked at first and then you can talk to her properly about it. Just tread carefully and don't leap out with emotions at first. Save them for later in the conversation. I hope this helps. I too am in a similar situation, it is very difficult to deal with. I'm sorry to hear it happening to you.

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Thanks you for help, I'm sorry to here you're in a similar situation, hope you are okay situ

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Thanks you for help, I'm sorry to here you're in a similar situation, hope you are okay

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Regardless of anything, just remember, you are the most important person in this situation and I'm sure your mother has your best interest at heart. Don't worry too much. Things will work out fine.

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Thank you x

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I would definitely speak to my mum first before saying anything to my dad. I think that it would be her responsibility to do so. You need to show her how this affair is not only affecting the relationship with your dad but also with you and the rest of the family...

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