To Breed Or Not To Breed?? For many months now I have been deliberating over when that "right" time is, we always hear people say that they're waiting until the perfect moment, does such a thing exist? I've always considered myself to be fiercely independent and very self sufficient, so children were never in my immediate plans. Then earlier this year I got married. That sent the baby ball rolling, people were going stir crazy for any comment that could be misinterpreted as a hint to a new arrival. My mum, dad, in-laws, work colleagues, friends, everyone started quizzing me at every opportunity. Even down to the car I brought not being practical enough, surely it was more realistic to have brought a people carrier or even a minibus!?!? It was never ending! One evening my significant other broached the subject, he decided to inform me of his desire for a baby. Now I feel that I have a duty to our marriage and him to do the expected thing and start trying for a baby, but am totally unsure as to whether I'm really ready, we are fairly financially stable but haven't yet brought our own house, what should come first? Can you ever be stable enough to turn your entire #life on its head for this little innocent? Should I just jump straight in? Am I right to wait? When is the perfect time? I can clarify that I'm still none the wiser, and will continue in my voyage to find the illusive event!