Everything Is Perfect, Sometimes Just Unwanted. So most of us have heard of the butterfly effect. A chaos theory saying that a butterfly could whip up a hurricane many years after just flapping its wings. Well somehow thats how the world works. Right now I am in a relationship I'm very proud to say has made me the happiest I can imagine being. But, looking back, so much could have changed that. Say my grandpa did not die in the summer between 6th and 7th grade. I would have met the girl i love at a completely different point in my #life with little that i can imagine could lead me to where i am now. This is how i always see things. I am weird. But without that I wouldn't be much. Just sharing thoughts.