Make a Choice So from the age of 14 we are forced to make career decisions at the age of 16 we have to make a choice that will affect us for the rest of our #life's it's called college course only the wealthy can afford to make a mistake if you pick the wrong course you will have to pay for the next one ...I wonder if anybody ever had a look at the percentage of kids who got it right and knew exactly what they want to do by the age of 16 ... But everybody is just a number pushed along in the line ...I do wonder how many of our next greatest minds have we lost and demoralised ... Maybe even a cure for cancer ?!

Well this is my first post ...but hmm fear is my biggest enemy fear of living rather then death which is what I wanted to write about fear and kids. I experience probably the strangest fear of all every day instead of being scared of death which is natural I'm afraid that the last thing I will do is punish my kids ...it's bizarre because it's hard to bring up kids without some kind of punishment yet every time I do it I feel a chilling spine effect on my body it drains me that little more every time my kids are naughty because I fight with my thoughts ...The only punishment my kids get is going to bed and a little telling of I have to straggle just to raise my voice or sometimes say anything at all ... Is it ? Just me?