Effort = Effortless You make too much efforts for someone, and they just ignore it. Bb told me this "Us girl are lucky. We are just too numb to feel it or too blind to see" i could say i'd agree on that. You ask questions that isn't hard to answer, but instead of telling that person the truth why leave the person hanging instead? Don't you know it hurts to recieve an answer that are questionable? Especially when you know in yourself that the person you love couldn't admit that they like someone else. You make efforts that she couldn't even appreciate it.