Romance Blog Once upon a time. No I'm not going start like that. There really is no once upon type if stories, there's only reality and its really only up to you, me, him or her to decide what we're going to do about it. I know that I want to have that live at first sight type of thing or that have that moment when all you have to do is have a little moment together, but I know that if thats ever going to happen that I might just have to do some of it myself.