The Breakup Am in that limbo that comes with still being in love with someone who doesn't want you. Kinda shitty really. Blokes say to fuck as many girls as you can to get her out of your head. Women say you need time to yourself to find who you are, find your centre.. Parents tell you not to worry that there is someone that is a better fit for you. Your kids just look at you and ask where mummy is... The questions are easy to deal with its the advice that I find hard to deal with. Not telling 100% of the truth to the people giving you the advice doesn't help either. But I have been here before and when it happened last time I had nothing. I was broke no friends no job selling things to see the kids still bending to every whim of there mother. But now I stand tall, I am proud single dad of two. She is the one that is alone, at sea, adrift. So I will look to the future I will push forward with all my plans being held back by pining to her goals. Most importantly I will be me and at no point will that change.