It Had To Happen The abuse, failed relationships, and illness had to happen. It had to happen so that I could push down the barriers that were blocking me from getting the #life that I deserve. So, how does a person who has experience great trauma live through the pain? It lies in the power of your mind. In your mind anything is possible. Imagine the #life you want and your true reality will form. Remember that bad thing that happened to you had to happen to give you the mental strength to push pass the pain to get the #life you deserve!