Jealousy Jealousy isn't ugly. Jealousy is something everyone possesses and something you can't deny not having. Especially if you're in love with someone, it's only natural to be jealous . It shows you care and how special that person is to you. You can't help but be overprotective and possessive of the person who has your heart in their hands and the ability to be the only to break it into a million little pieces.