Tentative As with all new things it takes a while... a while to feel out the space your in and get used to the surroundings. To soak in what it is you are looking at and savour...or not. What makes all the difference is not what is out there but how you react in here. This and only this is the difference, the key element that no one should be able to take away from you...unless they know. If they know, will you know they know? And will they know you know they know... Lets pretend they don't know, does that calm you down? Do you feel in control?