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This is like my blog, I always try and get away from the people I know.

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Translate   12 years ago

Mother I feel so empty. Me and my mother haven't talked all day, it makes me so sad. We got into an argument and now we're not talking, we both walk past each other like nither of us exist. This happens from time to time and I never know what to do about it. I usually end up apologizing even if I'm not in the wrong. Is it bad to think that she also isn't a good mother to me? I know that I'm saying this in a selfish way but that's how I feel. She's never pleased with anything I do, every grade I get, she'll never look happy with that; even if it is out standing. Any achievement of mine means nothing to her. I feel so unloved... She adds so much pressure to my #life and I can't help but dislike spending time with her because she'll just put me down. I try and tell her this but she'll just turn it into something else; usually an argument. I never know what to do anymore, just as I start to get close to her we'll have a big argument and everything falls to pieces. I can't not talk to her over the Christmas times, it's horrible knowing that I don't have a strong relationship with my mother, I know we'll never have one, but I can't stand not talking to her, what should I do? How can I avoid this? #help #relationship #problems

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Sienna Williamson

This is sad 😔 my mum and I and lots of falling out when I was in my teens perhaps it's a mother daughter thing lots of my friends had the same problem but I'm sure things will get easier for you whenever things got awkward between us I would write a letter and stick it under her bedroom door telling her how I felt seemed easier than saying it and it always got us back on track so you could try that just try and remember that she only wants the best for you 😘x
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☁☀ Caroline

@sjw I agree - it is often the 'wanting what's best for you' that causes a lot of the problems!! But, it comes from a good place.... It sounds like she is afraid of becoming too close, maybe she feels vulnerable and doesn't want to lose her grip? It must be so hard, but remaining positive and showing her that you love her should help to break through these problems? I hope you can sort it out, I know how horrible it is not to have a relationship with your own family. Best of luck to you 💓💓💓
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Uppy

@sjw @MrsS thank you for helping, I really do hope that things get better between us too ❤
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    Translate   12 years ago

    Terrible Complication I've got myself into a terrible complication. Help. I'm with this boy who neither excites me or interests me anymore; I don't find him all that attractive. The little things he does behind my back thinking I wouldn't find out annoy me more. The way he doesn't care and never makes effort frustrates me beyond comparison. The problem is we were never officially together, although he wanted us to be, he begged and said please, but I just didn't want to be in a relationship. However we now act like a couple in front of people but behind the public I'd be lucky to get a text. I don't want to finish what we have because I feel that we'll be better later on, because in reality everyone has flaws, although his ambitions are amazing, and he's good for me, he doesn't understand me. So do I have any right in telling him what he should do? Do I should clingy if I say I want to talk? Am I just wasting my time, by hoping it'll be sorted out and we'll be happy at the end? Or should I just carry this tragedy on, and have no one to blame but myself? #help #relationship #problem

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    Uppy

    @Burrfoot how? What if I regret it?
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    Teddy

    It's not a real relationship by any standards, you don't like him much, what's to regret?
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      Translate   13 years ago

      Dramatic Assumptions I will see something as small as a 'like' on Facebook or a 'favorite' on twitter and my mind will start thinking of these things that could be happening behind my back. I lack trust in you, All these stories start forming in my head, of how you're losing interest... However I don't know you that well to have trust in you.. I have difficulties in the whole 'trust' department. I don't know wether it's your lack of understanding, Or are some sneaky bastard who can't be happy with one person... Or is it me making dramatic assumptions on minimalistic information

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        Translate   13 years ago

        My Favorite #quote If people were rain, I was drizzle and she was a hurricane' - In 'Looking for Alaska' by John Green

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          Translate   13 years ago

          Relationships I want to see you across the room and smile, I want to be up all night thinking about the things we could do, I want you to want me, I want to slowly fall in love over Christmas, But... I don't want our friends to know, I don't want you to meet my parents, I don't want to plan years ahead, I don't want to be known as 'boyfriend' and 'girlfriend' I don't want things to get complicated... I don't want to do this right now...

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          linda

          But perhaps later? 😉😽
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          Uppy

          @crowncottage perhaps! But I'm being rushed into thinking bout it now!😥😊
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          linda

          You can think about it, but be the master of your own destiny! ☺
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